the two sides of a coin

Just when I thought I had figured out everyone and my place in July, I see that seeing two sides is something I haven't been doing lately. Guilty? Yes. Sad? Maybe. When the person tells me his story, I wonder if I should empathise...and then I tell myself, maybe this is what he wants. When you are trained to stand on middle ground as much as possible, a situation arises. You wake up one day and find that you are in no man's land. I cannot claim this land because there is no one here.